Getting married is one big day where everyone thinks you're weird if you don't dress up and parade around and make everyone clap for you
And then being married is where you're supposed to keep your head down and not make eye contact with anyone else ever again or even talk about being married because nobody wants to know
[ she's actually done the permanent contract thing and said vows here on a small scale and knows what marriage is from back home, she was honestly just curious about what he'd say. ]
So, you're not one for parties or monogamy. Understood.
[ He didn't really intend to imply that his problem with marriage is monogamy, but his own experience is probably not really much like anyone else's, so – whatever. It's a nice way of putting it, anyway. ]
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There's a difference between getting married and being married
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And then being married is where you're supposed to keep your head down and not make eye contact with anyone else ever again or even talk about being married because nobody wants to know
Both bad just for different reasons
Speaking from experience
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So, you're not one for parties or monogamy. Understood.
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I don't like parties but I get the point of them
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