Getting married is one big day where everyone thinks you're weird if you don't dress up and parade around and make everyone clap for you
And then being married is where you're supposed to keep your head down and not make eye contact with anyone else ever again or even talk about being married because nobody wants to know
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And then being married is where you're supposed to keep your head down and not make eye contact with anyone else ever again or even talk about being married because nobody wants to know
Both bad just for different reasons
Speaking from experience